Monday, December 24, 2007

Reflections of 2007

Sitting here thinking I wish I had a witty way to start my blog. Considering the number of people who will actually read this - that's kind of funny.

Annual Christmas Letters - Love them or Hate them?

I actually like them. Love is probably too strong - but I definitely don't hate them. I like getting updates from friends that I've otherwise lost touch with. Just because we don't keep in contact doesn't mean I don't want to know what is going on in their lives. We are all so busy that it's really hard to keep in touch.

I haven't written an annual letter in several years. I stopped when we decided to stop sending out Christmas cards. We stopped sending Christmas cards after we realized how many people just send them because they think they have to. One year we were really late getting them out - and after we did we noticed how we all of a sudden received a "batch" of cards. All from people we sent cards to. Maybe they were all just as late as we were. Or maybe they got ours and thought "oh no - I didn't send them one - I better do so now". Whatever the case, it doesn't really matter. It made us realize that the only reason we sent them is because we thought we "had" to. We still get some, because some people really enjoy sending Christmas Cards.

The annual letter was much easier to write when Vicki was a baby. Our lives were much more eventful when we were in our 30's. We moved home, bought a house, had a baby, moved up in our careers, dabbled in our own businesses and paid off our house. Now we are in our 40's and life has become much more relaxed. We're both happy with where we are in our careers. We both have great jobs that allow us to have the perfect balance of making enough to afford our lifestyle along with having enough time to enjoy it. We don't have a fancy lifestyle - but we truly enjoy it. Neither of us is a big fan of expensive vacations and fancy dinners out. Some people may think our life is pretty boring if I can't think of any big events to report on for my annual letter. Those that know us though know that our lives are definitely not boring.

2007 was a fast year. Our daughter became an official teenager in 2007. It seems like she was just a baby. She's a great kid. She's got a great head on her shoulders, and she's also very smart. Sure she pushes the limits, along with our buttons from time to time. She's a teenager, if she didn't I'd be more worried! We took a road trip up to Northern Idaho with both of the dogs. They were both so well behaved and we all had a really good time. We turned a business trip for me to Washington DC into a family vacation this fall, which was a great experience, even though we got stuck in Atlanta overnight on the way home and our luggage didn't arrive home when we did!

2007 was a good year. I think 2008 is going to be even better!

Sunday, November 18, 2007

School Rivalry, Sportsmanship and the Dark Side

I am an Idaho Vandal Alumni and an Idaho Vandal Fan. 20 years ago that was so much easier to say. I still love my Alma mater and hope my daughter wants to go there someday. Moscow is an awesome small college town. Half the population is students and the other half wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the University.

In 1996, Idaho left Division 1-AA and the Big Sky Conference to join Boise State in Division 1-A. This was a bad move, and I have not nor doubt I ever will forgive them for it! Boise State was ready to join Division 1-A. Idaho was not and is still not ready after 11 years! Frankly I'm amazed that the NCAA allows them to continue this sham. They can't even play all of their home games at their home stadium because it's not big enough to satisfy the attendance requirements (or something like that).

Idaho and BSU have been major in-state rivals since 1971, right after BSU joined the Big Sky. Over the decades, the schools took turns dominating each other for several years in a row. I was lucky enough to be at Idaho during one of Idaho's dominations. We beat them 12 times from 1982-1993... A Decade Straight of Beating Boise State!

That was truly "back in the day", and it is never going to be like that again. Boise State has grown up. Yes, we were a University back when they were still a Junior College. However, they have the population base and the fan base to support a Division 1-A football team. Idaho does not and never will. Moscow is a small college town. Boise is becoming a big city, and they definitely have the fans to support even further expansion of their team.

I was at the game where Boise State broke Idaho's 12 year winning streak. It was so painful, that it was the last game I attended in person between the two schools... until yesterday that is. I had such mixed emotions about going to the game. We were invited by one of Scott's vendors. He is a really cool guy and he even bought Scott an Idaho hat and shirt for the game. He's a referee for high school football games so it was fun to have him there to help explain some of the strange officiating (and there were quite a few strange calls in that game).

I wasn't worried about losing the game, that was to be expected. There is always the hope with these big rivalry games of an upset - but it wasn't the outcome of the game that I was nervous about. My big concern was the BSU fans. At the last game I attended, I almost got in a fight with the woman sitting behind us. She was so unbelievably rude and obnoxious. Instead I think I ended up congratulating her on the win and walking away the bigger person... but I really wanted to deck her.

So there I was yesterday morning, thinking about spending 3 hours in the rain surrounded by rude "fans" who think supporting their team means being rude to the other team and watching my Alma mater get destroyed on the football field. If you haven't noticed, I have a tendency to worry about worst case scenarios (but I'm working on it). Fortunately, once again my worst case scenario didn't come true.

Before I go further, I must pay homage to the weather gods. It rained before the game, and rained after the game - but during the game the weather was actually beautiful. Thank you weather gods!

The fans were what surprised me the most. We were surrounded by BSU fans of course, but they were actually pretty cool. Sure, we heard comments like "sucks to be a vandal", but for the most part they were true BSU fans who were there to support their team and not to try and cut down the other team. The only time I really stood up and showed "my" colors was when the team came out and the crowd started booing. I hate booing - I just don't think it is cool. Oh sure, I've boo'd many a team..., and I would probably still boo if there was a call I didn't like or if a player did something flagrant that wasn't cool. But to boo the team as they come onto the field... I had to stand up and start yelling. This of course brought me to the attention of the BSU fans around me - who stopped booing the team and started yelling at me to sit down. But they did it in a good natured sports rivalry way... and they stopped booing my team! The guy next to me was a former BSU cheerleader, and he was very cool. He was actually more bothered by the few rude BSU fans around than I was. When the guy a few rows behind kept yelling "get off the field" every time an Idaho player was injured, the guy next to me said "we're not all dicks" and the guy in front of me turned around and shot rude guy a look.

It was actually really cool to see how full the stadium was and how supportive the fans are. These were not the BSU fans I remembered. These were not the BSU fans I hated from the past. This is not the past. Things have changed.

We've been back in Boise now for 15 years. We love Boise and this is where we will stay until we decide to retire somewhere. Boise is our home, and whether we like it or not, the Broncos are our home team. Over the past few years they have made it harder and harder not to like them. I couldn't help but to cheer for them in the Fiesta Bowl. When your most hated rival plays the most entertaining game you've ever seen, and you are cheering them on all the way it changes things. The Boise State football team earned my respect that day. The Boise State fans earned my respect yesterday.

I no longer "Hate Boise State". I am starting to feel that I can support my home team. I can't quite call myself a BSU fan, but I would like to see them continue to win. I will continue to hope that the Vandals will pull their heads out some day and stop pretending to be a 1-A team. We could be a powerhouse 1-AA team again. Let the Broncos play with the big boys - they've proved that they can do it.

Scott says I've gone over to the Dark Side.

Friday, November 09, 2007

Roni on Politics

41% of Democrats cannot name even one Republican candidate for President. At least according to the morning DJs that I listen to. I didn't check it out, but I believe it is possible. The DJs proceeded to call Wallmarts across the country to see if they could get someone to be able to name just one Republican Presidential candidate. Their premise was that there is not better cross section of the country than Wallmart. While I agree that you could probably find a pretty good sample of both republicans and democrats among the shoppers at Wallmart, I'm not so sure you can say the same about the people whose job it is to answer the phone at Wallmart.

It took four calls before someone could name a candidate. The first person even said "I'm a democrat - I don't know anything about the republicans. What??? That's just wrong. How can you make an intelligent decision about a candidate without knowing all of the facts??

Aahhh - there lies the problem (at least as I see it). Most of the people who vote do NOT have a full understanding of the issues or the candidates. They are voting strictly on popularity or on party lines. I admit I've done that in the past. When I first started voting I would vote a strict republican ticket because my parents were republicans so that's what I was.

Over the years, I've discovered that there is not one party that agrees 100% with everything I believe in. Heck, there's not even one person who agrees 100% with me. My husband and very best friend comes close - but even we disagree on some things.

Opening my mind to the different issues has been sometimes very painful, sometimes very tedious, sometimes very frustrating, but always enlightening. Nobody likes to talk about politics, because they are afraid of offending or alienating their friends if they don't agree. Or they are afraid of letting their friends know just how little they really know about the things they go out and vote for. Either way - it's too bad that politics is such a taboo subject.

Very few of my friends share my views about politics, and I love to have conversations with them about it. I will openly admit when there is an issue or candidate that I know nothing about, and if I still don't know anything by election time - I do not vote on that issue or candidate. In the beginning, only property owners were allowed to vote. That would never go over again, but I sure would love to see a "pre-vote" test at all of the polls that you would have to pass before they could count your votes. The test could be pretty simple and still keep people who have no clue from actually casting a vote. It shouldn't be a popularity contest or a party line contest. We need people in office who understand the issues, know what they are doing, and are capable of keeping our country safe.

So where do I fit in the political spectrum? I'm truly and individual. I'm generally fiscally conservative and socially liberal. I love Bill O'Reilly and Ann Coulter, but I think they are both kind of whacked when it comes to "moral" and religious issues. I actually agree the most with the Libertarian party - except for one very critical issue and that is the war. I fully support the war on terror. I believe that it exists and I believe that radical Islam wants to convert or kill everyone who does not agree to convert. I think that the very most important thing for our next President to do is to continue the fight against terrorism and the countries that support it.

I cannot believe that the feminists in this country, including Hillary Clinton are not saying anything to protest the horrible way that women are treated in the Middle East. Not only are women treated as second class citizens with absolutely no rights, have their clitoris cut off as children so that they can never enjoy sex, forced to cover every inch of their bodies, but they are also stoned to death for the crime of being raped. I will fight to the death against anyone that tries to make me live under that type of "society".

That's where I stand and that is why.

Saturday, March 31, 2007

The American Idol Crowd

I'm part of what those who stay on top of politics and world events call the "American Idol Crowd". I'll admit it, I would much rather sit at home and watch people sing and wonder how Sanjaya keeps getting votes than think about the current state of affairs in our Nation.

The funny thing about that is that I hate popularity contests. I hate them because they usually put people in positions that they have no qualifications for - just because they were able to get people to vote for them. American Idol is definitely a popularity contest. The difference between it and other popularity contests is that by the time it gets down to the top 24 - everyone who makes it has talent. They beat out thousands of other people and any of them deserve to win. Sure it's a popularity contest, but it is entertaining and I love to listen to people sing.

Politics is also a popularity contest. Unfortunately, there isn't a Randy, Paula and Simon to help weed out those with no talent or no business being in politics before they are put before the public for a popular vote. The winner of American Idol receives a recording contract paid for by a private party. The winner of a political race gets to influence and make laws and decisions that affect our freedom and our way of life - paid for with our tax dollars. Yikes.

Not only don't the politicians have to have any real qualifications, neither do those who vote for them. Talk about the blind leading the blind. Think about the popular kids when you were in school - and where are they now? Most of them are probably still waiting for their buddies so they can go to the bathroom or decide what to wear. You think Bill Gates would have won any popularity contests as a kid? I doubt it, but look where he is now.

The thought of a total incompetent who has no regard for freedom or what makes this country great becoming a representative, senator or even the president scares me way more than the thought of Sanjaya getting a record deal. I feel like I cannot really affect the outcome of either situation, so if I have to just sit back and watch I'd much rather be entertained than scared out of my wits.

I think politicians should have to meet specific educational and experience requirements to run for office - just like the rest of us must to get our jobs. I also think that voters should have to pass some kind of test in order to be able to vote.

Despite my preference to watch American Idol in blissful ignorance, I do think about current events.

I think what we are doing in Iraq is the right thing to do. Getting rid of Saddam was the right thing to do. I cannot believe that the women's rights activists in this country are not screaming that we are not doing enough to end the horror that the women must suffer in the Middle East. I think the world is a better place with Iraq being our ally instead of our enemy. I think if we pull out now - Iraq will eventually fall back to the same horrible rule as they had before. What a shame.

I think Iran is a huge threat to our safety and security. Ahmadinajad is trying to get rid of Israel and everyone who will not submit to Islam - just like Hitler tried to get rid of the Jews. He's said this - why do so many refuse to believe that he means it? I think the taking of the British sailors by Iran is an act of war. I think the British are totally wimping out - and Iran is winning. They want the Brits to admit they were wrong and apologize. I do not believe that the Brits were in Iranian waters - and even if they were I don't believe that the taking of hostages was justified. The way they are treating these hostages is even worse. I don't believe any of the letters or speeches that have been released from the hostages. Those who were taken hostage by Iran in the past and who were lucky enough to eventually be rescued will tell you that they were forced to write letters admitting to things they didn't do. Iran wants everyone to bow down and accept Islam or die. Again - not a secret. If you don't believe this just listen to them sometime. I don't want to bow down to Islam - and I will die defending myself before I would do so.

I think Rosie O'Donnell has a right to say what she thinks. I also think she is a traitor to our country and I don't understand what she is trying to do by being so outspoken. I heard her say that the current hostage situation has been fabricated to incite a war, and that the events of 9/11 were also part of a big scheme by our own government. I think she is insane. Unfortunately there are a lot of people out their who listen to her and believe her. I wish she would pack them all up and take them out of our country - we'd all be much better off for it. She appears to have no respect for our country and is trying to destroy it. Why must people try and destroy things that they do not like? If you don't like it - leave!!!! Just like I have no tolerance for people who hate their jobs and instead of doing something about it like finding another one - they try to destroy things for everyone else so that they are not the only ones who are miserable.

I think our country is headed for self destruction; or socialism which in my opinion is the same thing. I cannot stand it that some people expect others to support them. I enjoy working and earning a living. I enjoy paying my own bills. I don't expect anyone else to support me and I don't want to support anyone else other than my family. I don't want to earn a certain wage because I am a woman - I want to earn it because I do a damn good job (and I do). I see the benefit of certain social programs, and yes I do have loved ones who benefit from some of them. However, I think that if we were not taxed so much and if the social programs were left up to individuals they would still exist. People have an amazing way of helping each other out when it is our choice and not forced upon us.

I think that there are legitimate functions of the government, and I have no problem with my tax dollars going to support the defense of our country. I do have a problem with my tax dollars going toward public education - but that's an entire different blog!

I don't understand how so many people in this country can be so blind to what is really happening. Is it any wonder I prefer to watch American Idol?